Salamullahu alaikum jami’an..saya
sebenarnya tertarik apabila baca kisah ini di mana seorg ibu menjalankan amanah
untuk mendidik anaknya supaya solat fardhu,menjaganya dengan baik.Dan saya
boleh katakan pendekatan yg dijalankan seorang ibu ini secara berhikmah. Sahabat-sahabat,sesungguhnya
ganjaran rahmat dari Allah kepada sesiapa yg mendirikan solat.
“Dan dirikanlah solat, tunaikanlah
zakat, dan taatlah kepada rasul, supaya kamu diberi rahmat.”
-an-Nuur,56.
Bersabda Nabi Muhammad SAW:
"Solat itu tiang agama.
Barangsiapa mendirikan solat, sungguhlah ia telah mendirikan agama dan
barangsiapa meruntuhkan solat, sungguhlah dia telah meruntuhkan agama."
(Riwayat al-Baihaqi).
Semoga tiang agama Islam sentiasa
kukuh kepada keluarga Wardina.Berikut adalah tipsnya.:
Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda...
I have to share this with you...
because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off... I
started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th
birthday... we had a talk... (check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la...
tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2
la kami solat.... she hasnt missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap
solat. I made sure of that - because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari
kecik memang LIAT nanti.... But it is very important to keep this in mind:-
1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal
WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal - kena make sure - every
waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat
2)l Selalu kalau boleh solat
together..mula2 memang kena solat together....kalau tak ada rumah make sure an
adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading
class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -lepas solat time tu lah
peluk cium, senyum - i always kiss her at the head and say "Barakallahufiha"
Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah....make her never miss her solat
Ya Allah.....kuat2 bagi dia dengar....
ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah -
bukan waktu exam je amik cuti - buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7
thaun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! "mama amik cuti hari ni
sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!"
3)Selalu cerita how IMPORATANT it is
to solat..how Allah is watching us... how we are good Muslims when we solat,
how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah.....TAPI selalu
jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat...acknowledge the fact that
sometimes we feel lazy to solat....itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off....! I
tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that....we have to be
strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat.....
4)Awal2 subuh ni memang tak
bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight
away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang
seli dgn strictness)
5)kalau dia tinggal - DENGAN
sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a
reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to
remember - and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad,
sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia
yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok...but kena
solat terus bila bangun.
Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna,
kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat
sekolah....tadi memang datang lambat... i was loking for her..and guess
what????
She was actually praying her Asar
prayers... sorang je kat dalam surau tu.... i wanted to pengsan and cry... she
did all by herself.... i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her... i
tanya dia kenapa? dia kata "Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap"..... cair nya
hatiku ini.
Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia....
and called nenek at Australia... now im sharing with all of you!!! Because i
want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart,
intelligent -that remembers Allah because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY
Muslims like this!!!
And the foundation is - to start
them off right - solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!I love you
all!!! Good night..... But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat
dulu...anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus...fahamkan?
very nice n sweet tips from wardina..may ALLAH bless her and her family..:)
ReplyDeleteyup....very sweet tips from wardina...jzkk 4 sharing.....effective ways i guess...goin to practice those tips to my youngers brothers and sisters~
ReplyDeleteyup....very sweet tips from wardina...jzkk 4 sharing.....effective ways i guess...goin to practice those tips to my youngers brothers and sisters~
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